18th June
June 28, 2009Today the girls had a workshop presented by an organization called Circle of Life. It involved videos, role plays and discussions about pregnancy and childbirth. Almost all indigenous women are mothers before they are 18 years old. Many are grandmothers by 30. Unfortunately the statistics for their births are alarming. Many babies are born underweight, with foetal alcohol spectral disorder and then suffer serious levels of neglect. Much of this is because of the social disorder now, there are no longer many good mothering role models and all the knowledge of birth and childcare is no longer passed on as their traditional midwives are few and far between.
Julie the presenter had warned me that often the students are too shy to participate and so I may have to take part in the role plays. She had a great variety of props which included a variety of plastic food, a joint, baby, placenta and umbilical cord, clamp, scissors, umbilical pegs, pelvis, beer cans etc. The most important props she had was a variety of coloured wigs. Once the girls saw the long flowing locks in various hues they were hooked. There was no shyness about them.
The role plays were based around 2 couples: the first couple was doing everything right for a healthy baby, while the second couple were doing everything wrong. Since so much of what they live with is couple 2, they were fantastic at knowing exactly how this couple behaved. In the first scenario they were visiting the obstetrician and discussing their pregnancy (complete with the couple drinking beer and smoking ganja outside the waiting room). The second scenario was the birth and the girls had us in hysterics with their antics.
For as funny as it was the girls got the message and could discuss the dangers and the appropriate behaviour. Julie was pleased with how much zeal the girls participated. The reality is something else though. I can imagine that the frustration of one’s potential and lack of opportunity does contribute to early pregnancy simply from boredom. The mental anguish that results and the immersion in a drinking culture will result in many of these girls becoming alcoholics. It is certainly a bleak outlook for them. At 12 years old, many have had their implanon contraceptive inserted under their skin and I pray that pregnancy is not their fate for some time to come. They are such beautiful kids they deserve some of the delights the world has to offer.

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